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Dementia Care Dilemma: The Best Options for Your Loved One Revealed!

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Dementia Care for a Loved One

Dementia is a significant concern for many of us, affecting over 570,000 people in England alone – that's about 1 in 6 people over the age of 80. While it predominantly impacts older adults, approximately 12,500 individuals under 65 also experience what is known as early-onset dementia. Both men and women are equally susceptible to this condition.

As our population continues to age and advances in cardiac health improve longevity, the number of people living with dementia in the UK is expected to soar. By 2025, it's estimated that over 1 million people will be living with dementia, and this figure could double to over 2 million by 2051. Presently, dementia costs the UK economy more than £26 billion annually, with two-thirds of this burden falling on those with dementia and their families.


What Exactly is Dementia?

Dementia is not a single illness but an umbrella term that encompasses a variety of symptoms resulting from different brain disorders. Some of the most common types of dementia include:

  • Alzheimer’s Disease

  • Vascular Dementia

  • Dementia with Lewy Bodies (DLB)

  • Frontotemporal Dementia

  • Dementia Pugilistica

  • Creutzfeldt-Jakob Disease


The symptoms of dementia vary, but typically involve impairments in neurological function, such as:

  • Short-term memory loss

  • Mood changes

  • Communication difficulties

  • Disorientation

  • Delusions

  • Impaired cognitive abilities

  • Depression

  • Weight loss

  • Behavioural disorders, including jealousy, paranoia, or aggression


Certain behavioural issues are linked with specific types of dementia. For example, pathological jealousy is often associated with DLB and dementia pugilistica, which can be triggered by head trauma.


The Causes of Dementia

Given that dementia encompasses a range of neurological disorders, there are numerous potential causes.

Research suggests that some forms of dementia have a genetic component, particularly Alzheimer’s and frontotemporal dementia. Additionally, Dementia with Lewy Bodies shows signs of genetic risk factors contributing to its development.

Head trauma, such as a direct injury, can also cause dementia, particularly in conditions like dementia pugilistica. Oxygen deprivation to the brain, known as hypoxia, is another risk factor, often resulting from strokes, cardiac arrest, or even high-altitude sickness. Tumours that compress brain tissue can also trigger dementia symptoms.

Moreover, other less common diseases can lead to brain damage and result in dementia. These include:

  • Huntington’s Disease

  • Parkinson’s Disease

  • Immune system-compromising diseases, such as leukaemia, meningitis, and AIDS

  • Syphilis

  • Liver Cirrhosis, often linked to alcohol-related dementia


Recognising the Early Signs of Dementia

If you're worried that a loved one might be developing dementia, it's important to recognise the early signs so that appropriate care can be sought. Here are some symptoms to look out for:

  • Memory problems: This is the most recognised symptom of dementia, particularly in Alzheimer’s and vascular dementia. It might involve repeating the same story, forgetting names, missing appointments, or asking the same question repeatedly.

  • Word confusion: Individuals with dementia often struggle to find the right words, replacing them with related terms or descriptive phrases. For example, "car" might become "bike" or "driving thing." As the condition progresses, these substitutions may become less related or even nonsensical.

  • Personality changes: Dementia can bring about significant shifts in personality. Someone who was once outgoing may become withdrawn, while a typically courteous individual might become insensitive.

  • Symptoms of depression: Unhappiness, social withdrawal, and changes in sleep and appetite are common, along with mood swings.

  • Difficulty with everyday tasks: Early dementia might cause problems with complex tasks like managing finances or cooking. It’s common for individuals to leave tasks unfinished or place objects in odd locations, such as a handbag in the fridge.

  • Disorientation: Dementia can cause confusion and anxiety in unfamiliar environments, leading to repeated questions about their location or destination. Even in familiar surroundings, they may wander off and get lost.


Differentiating between dementia and the natural ageing process can be challenging, especially in the early stages. For a detailed guide on this, Alzheimers.org offers comprehensive resources.


How to Communicate with Someone Living with Dementia

Communicating with someone who has dementia or Alzheimer’s requires patience and understanding. Choose a quiet, non-distracting environment, free from background noise like radios or televisions. Ensure the space is well-lit.


People with dementia often rely more on body language than words, so maintain eye contact and use relaxed, expressive gestures. Speak clearly and slowly, using simple words and short sentences, with pauses to allow time for processing.


Be mindful when asking questions. Avoid overwhelming them with choices. Instead, ask yes or no questions and, if necessary, provide visual cues to help them choose.


Caring for a Loved One with Dementia: Your Options

Caring for a loved one with dementia is undoubtedly challenging, but various care options can make a significant difference.


Home Care

If you choose to care for your loved one at home, there are several ways to make your space more dementia-friendly:

  • Memory triggers: Place photos and mementos around the home to help trigger long-term memories.

  • Colour-coding: Use bright, contrasting colours to mark important spaces like bedrooms and bathrooms. This helps with orientation and reduces anxiety.

  • Labels: Clearly label everyday items to minimise confusion.

  • Adapted utensils: Provide suitable eating utensils designed for dementia care and consider offering easy-to-eat finger foods.

However, as dementia progresses, caring for your loved one at home might become impractical or unsafe.


Live-in Care

For a balance between professional care and the comfort of home, hiring a live-in carer might be the ideal solution. The advantages include:

  • Familiar surroundings: Your loved one can stay in a safe, known environment, which is beneficial for their health.

  • Personalised care: You can choose a carer with the specific skills and experience needed.

  • Pet-friendly: If your loved one has a pet, they can remain at home with their furry friend.

However, live-in care requires adequate space in your home and can be costly.

Ultimately, every situation is unique. Consider your loved one’s individual needs when deciding on the best care option. With ongoing research and advances in dementia treatment, we remain hopeful for improved outcomes in the future.


 

For more information, please reach out to our friendly team on 01707 333700.


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